In Bengal’s Crime Hub, Indo-Slovenian Couple Runs School For 160 Girls From Broken Families

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Piali – the name of this remote Bengal village, which denotes a tree, undeniably has a sweet ring to it. However, the real scenario is far from sweet and pleasant in this South Bengali hamlet. The place is notorious for being a crime hub. Ranging from illegal arms trade to trafficking of young girls, Piali features in the prime time headlines quite often for all the wrong reasons. Though not very far from Kolkata, primitive, patriarchal traditions like child marriage are frequently reported from Piali.

However, for the last ten years, a couple has been determined to change the face of Bengal’s crime village and turn it into a safe haven for all young girls. Anup Gayen, a native of neighbouring village Champahati, and his wife Mojca Gayen from Slovenia have built the Piali Ashar Alo School, which currently houses over 160 girl students from nursery to 8th standard. Some of them belong to broken families with alcoholic fathers or estranged mothers.

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Ashar Alo, which translates in Bengali as ‘the light of hope’, has a curriculum which is worlds apart from any regular school. The wholesome development of a child is given utmost priority here, over and above textbook knowledge, examinations and grades.

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Mojca with the students

Struggle was Anup’s companion in his growing years

“I have endured a lot of hardships as a child to get a proper education. I strongly believe that nothing other than education can liberate these lesser privileged kids from the shackles of poverty. Else the brutal world would continue to mistreat and marginalise them,” expresses founder Anup Gayen, whose own growing years were riddled with struggles.

“When I was 3rd standard, my father contracted tuberculosis. After he was admitted to the hospital for an indefinite time, my education was also on the verge of ending. I would be forever grateful to one of my teachers, who went out of her way to arrange for my admission to a missionary school, far from home. Later I completed my higher education from Chennai and Kanyakumari,” shares Anup.

There was a period of uncertainty in Anup’s life also, right after he graduated in automobile engineering. Lack of jobs landed him in working for a courier service, for a meagre Rs 700 per month. For two years, he supported his younger siblings’ education as well as sustained his own living costs with that earning. With time, Anup secured better jobs and gradually started inclining towards social work.

The seed that sprouted into Ashar Alo school

“I used to visit a church in Kolkata. As part of their social activities, they were looking for a place with the children who are in dire need of education and financial support. One of my friends suggested Piali, where even two square meals a day was a luxury at that time,” he narrates.

“I realised this is where I grew up grazing cows or carrying stacks of paddy. So, without a second thought, we started our project at Piali. Our initial survey revealed that more than 80% of the girls have never set foot inside a school,” shares Anup.

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Violin lessons at Ashar Alo today

Bringing these girls to school was a daunting task. Their parents were either toiling too hard or gambling and drinking too much; the kids were accustomed to living in an unhygienic and unhealthy atmosphere. “I remember applying hair oil and shampoo on their dirty, unkempt hairs and giving them clean clothes and a hygiene kit. Classroom and books came later, we had to ensure their well-being first,” he recalls.

Anup and Mojca’s heartwarming journey together

There is a deeply heartwarming story behind Anup meeting Mojca, who later went on to become his life partner. Slovenian psychologist Mojca Pajk arrived in Bengal as a volunteer with an international non-profit organisation, where she met Anup. Despite their differences, both of them shared a deep empathy towards the underprivileged community and trusted each other by heart. Gradually, a beautiful bond blossomed between the two and they got married soon afterwards.

Their marriage indeed drew frowns from their families and society. But, nothing lasted before their iron determination to design a dream future for these helpless little souls of Piali. Today, Mojca and Anup Gayen are proud parents of a son and a daughter, along being the guardian angels for 160 girls of Piali.

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Anup and Mojca with their children

Anup falls short of words to express his gratitude towards Mojca, whom he calls the biggest inspiration behind the school. “We can start a school with even five children. If it does not work out, we will close, but we have to try,” Mojca had proposed the idea to Anup ten years ago.

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Class in progress

When Slovenia stood beside Piali

In 2008, the couple started the Ashar Alo school in Piali with twelve girls and one rented room. They always dreamt of expanding the school, one classroom every year. But, funds had always been a constraint. This is where Slovenia, a quaint European nation, came together to stand beside a nondescript village in West Bengal, India.

Mojca contacted non-profit foundations in her motherland and appealed to the citizens to pour in their gracious contribution. The story of her selfless efforts motivated the young and old of Slovenia to raise around INR 4.5 lakhs. Even youngsters and schoolgoers chipped in their hard-earned pocket money, by selling magazines, handicrafts or artworks.

Mojca and Anup brought a plot with the money and started the construction of the present school building. The couple went door to door, pleading the parents to send their girls to the school and not ruin their lives in a loveless early marriage.

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The present school building

Responding to Mojca’s mail, in 2011, Žiga Rošer, an architecture student from Slovenia, expressed his interest to spearhead the construction project for Ashar Alo School. “He opted for three-walled open classrooms with intermittent corridors and lawns. He reasoned that the kids here were growing up amidst nature, so open classrooms would be best for their learning experience,” shares Anup. Later, German organisation CED financed in completing the construction.

The present scenario

At present, the two-storeyed school building has 12 full-time teachers and 160 girls. Alongside the regular studies, music, dance, drama, art and sports features in Ashar Alo’s curriculum.

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Mid-day meal in progress

A typical day at the school starts with the morning assembly. Classes are intercepted by mid-day meals and free tuition is also provided after school hours.

 

Besides, Ashar Alo also offers tailoring and beautician courses for the students’ mothers and local women. Computer and spoken English classes are also organised for them from time to time.

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Students’ mothers learning to tailor

“Recently, I have introduced football coaching for our girls where local boys also train together. These boys used to lead a shady life, dropping out of school early and consumed by drugs and gambling. Now, the girls and boys are together representing their village team in different tournaments,” Anup declares.

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The football team

Teaching empathy to the girls is fundamental

The school is free for the students, barring the cost of books and notebooks. Publishers throng the school premises at the beginning of every annual session, and students are offered sizeable discounts on textbooks and stationery. Other than that, the girls’ families have to invest nothing more for their education.

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Annual celebration

Anup feels that the students should realise how empathy and compassion from people around the world are helping them to study today. To inculcate the same values in these young minds, Anup keeps a contribution box in the school, while each student, teacher and staff are asked to donate something every day, be it as small an amount as one rupee. Every three months, the older students visit the homeless, elderly and differently-abled people in nearby railway stations, donating clothes, bedsheets or food to them- all bought from the funds collected in the contribution box.

“We have tried our best to help the girls have a better future. We are still trying our best,” Anup signs off, as the light of hope continues to illuminate Piali.

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Rahul Khera and Gautam Jindal, volunteers (aka hunger heroes) at Feeding India, were among the many Delhi NCR residents accustomed to seeing hungry children pick up half-eaten burgers or stale sandwiches from the dustbin and savour those with the brightest smiles. Like many others, they also had the will to promote equitable food distribution but was perplexed about the approach, until they learnt about the community fridge initiative which has gained unprecedented success in Saudi Arabia and few other European countries. Meanwhile, community fridges were already being installed outside restaurants or in public places in a handful of cities like Mumbai, Bengaluru, Kolkata, Coimbatore and Kochi.

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Needless to mention, with a shocking 103rd rank in the Global Hunger Index and a food wastage estimate of around Rs 58,000 crore – India was perhaps the best country to implement such an initiative. With Gautam’s help, an enthusiastic Rahul invested his own savings to install a ‘Happy Fridge’ outside his residence at Sun City, Sector 54 in Gurgaon. Set up in 2017 by these Feeding India volunteers, the fridge in Gurgaon has inspired the NGO to scale up the project across India.

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‘Happy Fridge’ fostered many smiles

It didn’t take long for the local residents to learn about this laudable endeavour. They welcomed it, as wastage of excess food was a recurring problem in almost every household. “Intimating the localities was no mammoth task, thanks to social media. However, it was difficult to spread the word among those who actually needed the food,” shares Rahul, who went from auto stands to slums, inviting rickshaw pullers, ragpickers or roadside vendors to avail the community fridge any time they feel hungry. “The security guards of our residential complex played a huge role in explaining how the fridge works to the beneficiaries,” he adds.

The operational and maintenance costs of the ‘ happy fridge ‘ are being maintained diligently by the community members.

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Making memories, sprouting awareness

“I remember one young man who had arrived from a village looking for some menial day job. Somehow he had run out of his paltry savings and had no money to buy one decent meal a day. For about a month, our happy fridge was his solace, till he earned his first salary from a housekeeping job,” shares a jubilant Rahul.

In another incident, a truck driver returning in the wee hours of midnight was starving after a whole day’s hard work. He had run out of cooking fuel at his home, so our fridge was at his rescue.

“The residents keep all sorts of palatable dishes in the happy fridge, ranging from dry snacks, fruits to cooked meals. Sometimes, they even keep raw vegetables, to ensure not a single bit of good food ends up in their trash while other people go hungry to bed,” reveals Rahul.

On an average, each happy fridge supplies around 10-15 meals in a day. The gratitude and pure smiles of the hungry souls after a fulfilling meal are more than enough to continue to motivate Rahul and his neighbours. In fact, inspired by him, many other communities in the Delhi-NCR region set up community fridges in their areas.

Feeding India will set up 500 Happy Fridges

Since the past few years, Feeding India has been a prominent organisation working in the forefront to solve the hunger problem in India. Primarily, they were involved in redistributing leftover food from weddings and parties among the underprivileged people in different cities of India. Their volunteers, better known as “Hunger Heroes of India”, worked actively to bridge the gap between food wastage and food crisis.

“We used to get a lot of calls from individual households to collect their excess food. However, unfortunately, we lacked the manpower and planning to launch our programme on a door to door basis. We were desperately looking for an alternative when we learnt about the community fridges,” shares Srishti Jain, co-founder of Feeding India.

After interacting with Rahul Khera and other campaigners of community fridges, Feeding India decided to amplify this extraordinary project throughout the length and breadth of India. Presently, they have launched the #FightFoodWaste campaign to install 500 community fridges – nicknamed ‘ Happy Fridge ’. So any passer-by – be it a kid going to school without a lunchbox, or a labourer returning home late at night with no promise of a dinner – can now grab a pack of biscuits or a bowl of ‘dal-chawal’ (rice & lentil soup) to satiate their hunger. Click here to contribute for ‘ Happy Fridge ‘ and ensure India never sleeps hungry again.

Feeding India also urges everyone to make a promise to stop wasting food and instead consider donating it to those in need.

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